每个人都有过往

在情意的世界里，不论丈夫还是女人，最较难犯的一个缺失，就是揪着对方的以前不不放。

In the emotional world, no matter husband and wife or lover, one of the easiest mistakes is to hold on to each other's past.

想发设法地查探，挖空心思地探讨，会站受限制自己的好奇心，会站比起对方看看更爱自己。

Try to find out and explore, satisfy your curiosity and compare whether the other party loves you more.

但这么认真的结果，除了会激起对方反感，更会给自己增添许多烦恼。

But the result of doing so, in addition to causing the other party's disgust, it will add a lot of trouble to yourself.

每个人都有以前，与其纠结于不太可能消逝、只能彻底改变的事情，不如就让往事随风去，情意才能稳步向前。

Everyone has a past. Instead of focusing on things that he passed away and cannot be changed, it's better to let the past go with the wind, so that our feelings can move forward steadily.

却是，和你在朋友们的人要南北愿景，而不是活在以前。

After all, the people you are with should go to the future, not live in the past.